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Ancestors. The Hidden Key to Successful Relationships

Ancestors: The Hidden Key to Successful Relationships

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Did you know that struggling to have a fulfilling relationship is not just your ‘fault’?

Did you know that your family history/ ancestors may play a big part in the problem?

We are all born into the web of our family, whether they are still around or not; whether you are in contact with them or not; whether you know them or not, does not matter. We are all influenced by our family history. And it can get in the way of having or finding a fulfilling love relationship. So for many, their ancestors are the hidden key to successful relationships.

So whether you are struggling with repetitive patterns in your relationship, or feel that you have no control over certain aspects of it, or just can’t seem to meet the right person in the first place, Homeopathy and Family Constellations can help.

Family Constellations: How Ancestors Influence Your Relationships

Historic family events can set up unconscious, inherited patterns, which negatively influence your ability to find or sustain a fulfilling relationship. For example…

 Early death of a sibling, child or parent – in any generation

 Miscarriages, abortions

–  Abandonment


–   Imprisonment

–   Being a victim or perpetrator of war

–   Suicide

–   Life-changing financial loss      

The new science of epigenetics backs up this theory. Recent studies with the descendants of holocaust survivors found that their stress hormone profile differed from that of their peers, predisposing them to anxiety disorders.

Family Constellation Case Study

A client felt like she was going mad. This started just after she found out she was pregnant, and it was affecting the relationship with her boyfriend. I asked her if anyone else in her family line felt they were going mad. She checked the family history with her mother and other family members. She discovered that her mother’s grandmother had had a child out of wedlock,  and as a result was institutionalised. Knowing this, and with some further support, she was able to relax and the feeling of going mad disappeared. The relationship with her boyfriend improved significantly, and she was able to enjoy a healthy pregnancy.

Homeopathy: How Ancestors Influence Your Relationships 

The founder of homeopathy, Samuel Hahnemann, identified that certain diseases predispose descendants not only to certain physical weaknesses, but also to distinct emotional / behavioural profiles. For example, an ancestor who’s had Tuberculosis (TB), will predispose descendants to a weak chest and allergies, as well as to feeling very restless, easily dissatisfied and trapped. This will have an inevitable effect on the person’s relationships, which can be addressed with homeopathy.

Homeopathy Case Study

A client had been struggling with an auto-immune illness since she had come out of a toxic relationship. She had been almost like a consenting slave – running around after her boyfriend’s needs and doing everything in the household. This pattern of relating had been set up at 11, when her Mother had left. She and her sister took on the burden of running the household and looking after her newly disabled Father leaving little room to meet her own needs and have a proper childhood. Her older sister then left 6 years later, leaving my client with the sole responsibility of financially and practically supporting her Father.

This might sound like the end of the story, however, as a homeopath I was able to identify a deeper layer of cause… her Mother’s Mother had had Tuberculosis (TB). Subject to the epigenetic inheritance of TB, which can make descendants feel easily trapped and very restless, my client’s Mother would have been unable to tolerate the prospect of spending the rest of her life looking after a disabled husband. By treating my client’s tendency to sacrifice and be over-responsible, her boundaries in her relationships have improved enormously, as have her physical symptoms. 

Why Family Constellations and Homeopathy Together?

Why not just do one or the other, given both explore and heal the negative influence of your ancestors’ experiences? Because the specific healing action of each discipline is different, and amplifies the healing effect of the other. Family Constellations uncover ancestral stories, giving you insights into the resulting patterns that are keeping you stuck. It also provides tools to release those patterns, so you are free to attract a potential partner and to enjoy your relationships more fully.

Homeopathy does two things: it heals inherited patterns where they arise from specific diseases like TB; and it heals  trans-generational trauma as expressed in the client.  It thereby restores emotional balance, so that you can go on to have healthier relationships.

When you do the two together, homeopathy builds on and strengthens healing initiated by Family Constellation work. And Family Constellation work builds on homeopathy by giving insight into the historic family events that set up unconscious relationship patterns.

Workshop: Ancestors: The Hidden Key to successful Relationships.

Sunday October 13 2019 

EARLY BIRD DEADLINE September 20th. 

This 1-day workshop will enable you to understand in greater depth the hidden influence of your ancestors on your relationships. You will  have an opportunity to look more in-depth at specific relationship issues you have through Family Constellations, and understand more about them from the homeopathic perspective.

For more information or to book please contact:

Sarah Davison, Coaching Homeopath on at

Annetta Apol, Family Constellations facilitator at   


Sarah Davison

Sarah became a homeopath after 20 years in the commercial world, in sales and then innovation consulting. She combines her qualifications in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Psychology (Dip. Psych) and Coaching (Synectics & NLP), with homeopathy to provide an inside-out and outside-in approach to facilitating people’s health and wellbeing on all levels - physical, mental and emotional. She is Mum to a teenager, and loves to sing and paint in her spare time.

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BSc (First Class Hons) Hom, LCHE,
RHom, MARH, Dip. Psych, BA.
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